She is NOT going to be better than Me

The other day I was doing what I usually do when I have a little bit of down time, scroll through my instagram feed. I am a very visual person so I love my insta, and as usual it is full of amazing foods, fashion, inspirational people and inspirational quotes, until I came across this quote that has changed my perspective since.

And as a visual person I saw the scene play out in front of me, of getting to heavens gates and meeting this woman. An amazing version of myself that is not only wise, calm, centred, but has kicked arse at everything she has wanted to. And in that second I could hear myself saying “NO WAY”. There is absolutely no way I am going to sit back and let that happen. That girl is NOT going to be better than me and I will do everything in my power to make sure that doesn’t happen. I will live out my goals, my dream and all that I aspire to be. I am NOT going to sit around waiting for ANYTHING at all, I am going to make it happen. If I want to be happy I am going to be happy, and I don’t mean next week, next year or even at the end of the day. I mean NOW!!

So in all this it made me think, why haven’t I executed some thing that I have wanted to? What were my excuses? I know they were good, because they obviously convinced me. But were they real? I mean where they legit excuses or where they my fears talking? Were they my mother talking? Were they society talking?

The truth is, it doesn’t matter what it was in the past that stopped me from doing things, all that matters is what is going to happen now. What I am going to do now, right his minute that is going to take me a step closer to my dreams? What am I going to do now to embrace life to it’s fullest, just the way I want it to be?

I have made a packed with myself, to live life on my terms, to live life consciously. To live it from a state of creation rather than reaction, to be a trend setter, not a follower and to love & enjoy every single bit of it.

And to take it one step further, I have made a packed with myself to help others do the same.


As a Kinesiologist Jennifer's love for food and creativity is 2nd to none, hence the focus on digestive health and business.

Jennifer works closely with her clients to ensure they get the most out of life.

As well as one:one consults Jennifer runs the personalised Unblock Your Business Program as well as the Align to You Group Program, both aimed at helping entrepreneur in their business.

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